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For Pete's Sake
Published in the Montreal Gazette June 29, 2000
The first time I met Pete was on a cold winter night at a doughnut shop on Sherbrooke St. West. Seated at the counter, several stools apart, we got into conversation. He was in his thirties, unemployed, but donating his time and skills to help in a project building homes for the needy in St. Henri. Over the next while, I often ran into him. He appeared to be a well-balanced young man who enjoyed composing songs on his guitar and at one time had envisioned a career in music. He owned a little red truck, which was old but was his pride and joy. He talked about happy memories of trips to Cape Cod with his Dad. He talked about a beautiful apartment that his Mom lived in. When he learned that, by profession, I worked in prevention and treatment of problem gambling he confessed that he used to have a problem with Video Lottery Terminals. He said he hadnt played them in more than two months. I congratulated him and told him that if the urge to play recurred, he should phone me and wed meet for coffee instead. He did call me on two occasions, but both times it was after he gambled. He said he hadnt lost much, but he had played and thought it important that he admit it to me. On one of his visits to my office I loaned him a book that was written by a VLT addict, herself two and a half years into recovery. I told him that we sell this book, but I didnt want him to buy it. I just wanted him to read it. He phoned the next day to say that he had finished the book but insisted on buying it, so that he could refer back to it in times of need.
For a long time after that our paths didnt cross. Then, about two weeks ago, Pete called me in search of advice. He had sold his little red truck and not reported it on his social assistance statement. They had found out through his bank records and he now feared serious reprisals. I suggested that he contact a legal-aid lawyer and get advice on how to handle the situation. I told him that surely, it would involve little more than repayment of monies that he was not entitled to for that period. The signal that I missed was the fact that he had sold his truck, his prized possession.
I left the country several days after that to attend an international conference on Gambling and Risk-Taking. Upon my return to Montreal, while still unwinding from a week of lectures and jet lag, on a hot summer afternoon in the park the news came to me. Pete, no longer able to cope with the albatross of VLT addiction, had made the ultimate decision: to commit suicide.
I never really knew Pete, but I lost a friend this week.
Prevention and treatment of problem gambling must become a government priority. In Quebec, the ease with which one can find a video lottery terminal within minutes of the home or workplace is creating a major crisis. Gamblers Anonymous groups are growing rapidly in number and attendance is largely comprised of VLT players. No other form of gambling hits as swiftly and as hard as this one. People seem to bottom out both emotionally and financially in record time. Those who had never in their life even entertained the thought of committing a criminal act are suddenly stealing money to support their gambling. Of course, in the mind of a compulsive gambler caught up in the spiral of chasing their losses, they are only "borrowing" the money. They have every intention of replacing it all as soon as they win. Unfortunately for many, that win never comes and the result is loss of job, loss of family, loss of business and the ultimate loss: the loss of life. It is well documented that compulsive gamblers have the highest rate of attempted suicide of all addictions.
On November 25, 1999, the Montreal Gazette stated that, according to the office of the coroner, there were fifteen gambling-related suicides reported in Quebec so far that year. Last week the updated figures were released and the new number of known gambling related suicides for 1999 is twenty-seven. These are the ones officially registered, only because in each case a suicide note had been written specifically referring to gambling. There were twenty-four men and three women, aged twenty-six to seventy-one, and most had problems with VLTs. We have no idea how many other suicides each year are actually a result of gambling.
The sad fact is that these numbers are not even the tip of the problem gambling iceberg. How many victims are not reported? Sadder still is the fact that, due to lack of government-funded public education and awareness programs, it is unlikely that the first time a person plays these machines he or she has any knowledge what a deadly addiction the VLTs can become!
In Quebec our VLTs can be played for as little as five cents at a time. Just imagine, for a couple of dollars you can buy an addiction that will last you a lifetime!
For all those who seek help, it is the responsibility of our government to make treatment accessible with minimum delay and at no cost. The cause of the problem can be found in every neighbourhood. So then, should be the treatment.
Sol Boxenbaum
CEO
Viva Consulting
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